I would say more about this, but would probably ramble on for so long that I would never get to Alexia's birthday celebrations for this year...I'm sure I'll be reflecting more on this in future blogs...but for now, here is how Alexia chose to celebrate her special day!
Alexia's bithday also fell on a school day, so she picked a snack for me to bring into the class. The Kindergarten Academy has very strict rules about snacks due to their wellness policy, so no cake/cupcakes/or anyting with sugar allowed!! BUMMER!!! So, Alexia picked Microwave Popcorn. Alexia also has a classmate who shares her actual birthday, so his mom brought in a special snack as well :)
Mrs. Deiter began the birthday celebration by having both Alexia and Vance stand on chairs in the middle of the classroom, while everyone sang "Happy Birthday" to them. She also had them each share something special that they were going to do for their birthday.
What was very cool is that, on the same day that Alexia had her birthday party and had invited all of the girls from her classroom, Lance had his birthday party and had invited all of the boys to his party -- PERFECT...nobody felt left out of the birthday party madness!
On the evening of Alexia's birthday, it was a last minute surprise that one of her best friend's, Alayna, was able to come have dinner and birthday cupcakes with us! Alexia and Alayna are such dear friends...they remind me of my best friend, Brenda, and I so very much!!
Now, compared to the prep and work that was required for Megan's party....Alexia made it very easy on me. She asked for a Swimming Party at the YMCA! Perfect!!
It was super easy to pull off this party, and Alexia has already announced that she wants a birthday swimming party when she turns 7, 8 and 9 years old!! I'm not sure what that means we have in store for us for birthday #10, but I'm sure she'll have it all figured out...lol :)
Here they are...all lined up...ready to enter the indoor water park!!
I could not believe how much energy these girls had...especially b/c this was an evening party, but they swam up and down that pool non-stop for over an hour and simply had a blast!!
After the swimming portion of the party (although I think the girls would have been happy to just stay in the pool for the second part of the party), it was time to dry off, change clothes and head back to the party room!
There, we had pizza, cheese balls, fruit roll ups and birthday cupcakes!
Here's our birthday girl...having a great time! Does her smile give it away??
Ten of Alexia's friends came from school and church...and the friendship she has with each of them is so different, yet so special. She loves them dearly!
An extra special surprise for Alexia was that her teacher, Mrs. Deiter, was able to stop in for the party! I have said this many times, but I believe God hand-picked Mrs. Deiter as Alexia's first teacher...she was a perfect match for Alexia in every way!!
As has become tradition at the girls' parties, I asked Alexia and her friends to stop and pose for a quick "friendship pic" before she opened each of their gifts!
Alexia and Leann |
Alexia and Sadie |
Alexia and Reese |
Alexia and Ava |
Alexia and Kassie |
Alexia and Cailyn |
Alexia and Julia |
Alexia and Alayna |
Alexia and Keely |
Alexia and Hope |
Alexia and Megs (hopefully her closest lifelong friend) :) |
After opening all of her special gifts, we attempted to get that infamous birthday party group shot...one girl was so tired by this point that she didn't want any part of being in the picture (poor thing), but here is the rest of the gang!
And, of course, they couldn't leave without posing for their "Silly Faces" shot...
I also want to share one "Proud Mom" Moment...while the girls were swimming, I had a chance to talk for a little bit with Alexia's teacher. She shared with me that earlier in the week, there was a little bit of drama with a few of the girls in the classroom ganging up on another girl (drama...can you imagine??). Anyway, one of the girls told Alexia that she should "uninvite" that girl to her birthday party. Mrs. Deiter then shared with me that Alexia immediately stood up to the other girls and told them FIRMLY and BOLDLY that she would NOT do that...that it was not kind and that all of the girls were invited and welcome to come to her party!! She then went on to give them a short lecture on how doing such a thing would hurt that girls feelings and that they should never treat someone that way.
Aahh...like I said, a very proud mom moment for me. You know, I sometimes feel like I talk endlessly to the girls about how they should treat others, especially their friends ~ we talk about how to work out disagreements and arguments and how to authentically show someone you are sorry ~ we talk about how to handle conflict and what to do if they (or anyone they know) is ever being picked on or bullied ~ and following each of these conversations, I just hope and pray that they "get it" enough that it will make a difference when it really counts.
Just knowing how Alexia stood up for her classmate when all of the other girls were turning against her simply makes my heart melt! She "gets it" and I am so very proud of her for making the choices she did in handling that situation.
Way to go, Alexia...this is just one more sign of what a beautiful, young girl you are...on the inside and out :) I love you so much!!