December was one very full month of many different celebrations of the season!
Of course, we kicked it off with decorating our house and our Christmas Tree! While I was off with some girlfriends for our annual Christmas wreath-making event, Scott and the girls headed out to pick out our tree. Scott let them make the final selection and they brought home a pretty nice tree, I must say!
So, that evening we put on the Christmas Music and began the process of decorating our tree. I say "began the process" because it took us 4 days to finally get it all decorated...between non-working Christmas lights, tired girls and a missing tree topper...we had to decorate the tree in stages :)
Nonetheless, our efforts resulted in one beautifully decorated tree!
The next big event to help us get into the spirit of the season was the ECC's annual Christmas program. This was the first year that Megan was in the program by herself and I think she enjoyed the extra attention!
Next on the celebration activity list...making and decorating Christmas cookies! This was one of the kids favorite activities and we actually had a night where we could all sit down together as a family to decorate these yummy treats!
Here is the final display of cookies...they had some pretty impressive creations, for sure!
And...although it was well past their bedtimes...it was a Friday evening, so we let them each pick two cookies to eat that night. Here they are enjoying their creations!
Once the tree was decorated, shopping was done, gifts were wrapped, cookies baked and decorated...we began to gather with family and friends to celebrate Christmas.
I, of course, have a bunch of pictures and video footage from our gatherings, but here are just a few pictures to give a quick snapshot of our fun times together :) Hopefully I will soon learn how to post video footage, since I have more video than pics this year!
Now, while we had a great time as we always do with our Christmas celebrations, I have to confess that this year felt a little "off " for me. As I have reflected on this the past couple of weeks, this is the conclusion I have come to...it's not one that everyone will agree with and that is okay...it's just how I feel...
As it happens each year, our girls received more gifts than they could possibly know what to do with...they are always thankful for everything they receive, but I have to say that the amount of gifts that came into our home for them this year felt a bit excessive (and I was definitely guilty of falling into the over-indulging in Christmas shopping this year). It's not that I don't appreciate the gifts for them or want them to receive special gifts, I do...but, as a parent, I feel convicted to try and maintain a balance for them so that we don't lose the focus of what this season is all about...the celebration of the birth of our Lord! There are many traditions and discussions we have to help keep the girls centered on the true meaning of this wonderful holiday, but it's a challenge at best to keep that at the forefront of our celebrations! Next year I will be more aware and more intentional of setting some good boundaries and expectations so that the girls can TRULY APPRECIATE the gifts they do receive from family and friends...and we can keep our focus on JESUS...the TRUE REASON for this holiday season!
As I reflected on what I LOVED about this Christmas season the biggest thing for me was having extra time as a family. With Christmas falling on a Sunday, Scott had some extra days in a row off of work, which was so nice and just helped things to feel more calm and relaxed. I loved experiencing Alexia lead the adult worship service in some Christmas worship songs...watching her and seeing the joy that poured out of her on that stage was simply priceless! We enjoyed having my parents come and stay with us and didn't have a lot of running around to do, so we were really able to just enjoy some quality time with them...we enjoyed our annual Christmas Eve services and small celebration back at our home...this year a new friend, Jodi, joined us for dinner and it was just really nice having her come and spend time with our family. The girls LOVED having her here and begged her to stay longer. I think we'll have to invite her to come back again sometime soon!
The biggest message I always hope to have shine through the different activities, gift-giving and gatherings of the season is a message of LOVE...at the end of day...at the end of the season...if we have nothing else but LOVE in our lives...We are TRULY BLESSED! I think these couple pictures of the girls together sum up this message better than I could ever say it...